in addition to givg the woan three or five thoand yuan, the an only needs to prepare one or o new hoes and doesn't care about anythg else. if the an's faily is poor and there is no dowry for the woan, the woan will also brg all the daily necessities.
on the day before arriage, the an t pay a gift to the woan. the gifts cde: half or one pig, chicken, clothes or fabrics, shoes and socks of the woan's parents, brothers and sisters. all thgs should be putpce. a big rack should be ed to carry the to the woan, so that the woan's onlookers can know what's g at a gnept for the food, retued to the an the next day.
the woan should prepare as follows
put red pahips, eggs, candy biscuits, and clothes, shoes and socks when you see the an's parents, brothers and sistersthe an's side. in addition, the parents also need to give the daughter so box oney (hundreds to thoands dependg on the nditions). beitent, the purpose is to see if the woan has given enough oney for the ntaer.
on the day before arriage, the woan will notify the an how any people will e to lift thgs the next day. generally, eight or ore n are required becae the woan needs to ession was arranged for the an to go to the woan's hoe to wele her. the n had to go, cdg the groo, o brides (won), five to six gongs and balt teas, and people carryg thgs. they all went to the woan's hoe to have breakfast together, blog and pyg. after dner, the woan sent off the weddg, with one an and o won seeg off the bride. the procession carryg thgs took a step first, and then the groo and bride followed with ubrels. regardless of the weather, each person had an ubrel, blog and beatg all the way to the an for nch.
after dner, the weddg scene is also the ost lively scene durg arriage. the purpose is to help the groo and bride eliate the feelg of shyness. vario progras try to ake their body and sk ntact, such as outh to outh eatg dates, o people lightg firecrackers, kittens fishg, and ash pickg. the ore tricks, the better. no atter how big or sall, they can ake as uch noise as they want. after the 1980s, the habit of akg weddg scenes gradually changed to watchg ovies, videos, and sgg.
concsion: marriagethat era was the siplest, especially for office workers and workers who ate the national food, let alone worry about anythg. they had free love, and when they got arried, their unit had a share of the hoe. the unit leaders would personally hold the weddg for the young uple, and after arriage, the young uple slowly ade so fuiture. unlike now, hoes t be bought by theselves, and so people would bee property sves for a lifeti. that era was truly socialist!
later, with the developnt of society and the iprovent of aterial livg standards, betrothal gifts erged, startg with three ajor ites: bicycles, watches, and seg aches. later, it developed to four ajor ites, five ajor ites, and so on, until now, i won't say uch about it.